Fun with Blindfolds

Want a quick way to jolt yourself out of a rut and spice up your sex? If you’ve never experimented with being blindfolded during sex, then there’s little that can get things jump-started faster!

Blindfolds are cheap, simple, and easy to use. If you like, you can even use something you already have lying around the house, like a scarf or even a piece of clothing, if you’re in a mood to improvise or if using an “official” blindfold seems too intimidating.

The nice thing about being blindfolded during sex is the way it makes you focus on your body; your other senses become heightened, so everything feels more intense. This makes blindfolds a great way to take what might otherwise be something humdrum and make it mind-blowing!

Start by slipping the blindfold over your partner’s eyes. Then, run your hands all over your partner’s body, caressing and teasing. Don’t rush!

Brush your fingertips, lips, and tongue all over your partner in unexpected ways. Mix it up! You can run your fingers over your partners side, then kiss your partner’s chin, then tweak a nipple, then caress your partner’s foot…one of the neat things about being blindfolded is the way the blindfold makes it impossible to tell what will happen next, so furthering the sense of anticipation.

Try an erotic massage when your partner is blindfolded. A blindfold makes the feeling even more sensual.

All the things you normally do during sex are magnified when you use blindfolds. Oral sex, intercourse, manual sex, you name it, all get that little bit of an extra edge.

It’s not just the person receiving the attention who can benefit from being blindfolded! You can wear the blindfold yourself when you run your hands and fingers and tongue all over your partner’s body.

An even more fun thing to do is to have both people be blindfolded. A game I like to play is to blindfold myself and my partner, and then spend some time just making out, caressing, kissing, touching, fondling, and undressing, without either of us saying a word. Without sight or speech, we can learn each other’s bodies just by touch alone. This is a wonderfully intimate, sensual way to get re-connected with your lover and focus on your lover’s responses.