Sharing Fantasies

Well, I’m back among the living; I’ve had a nasty cold for the last week that kept me from updating on the regular schedule yesterday. To make up for it, here’s an extra-hot sex tip!

One of the best ways that you can spice up your sex life is to share your sexual fantasies with your lover. There are a lot of ways you can do that, but one of my favorites brings an extra added element of spice into the bedroom.

Write down one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Describe the fantasy, and how it makes you feel. Then, when you’re ready to share, make yourself comfortable in bed while your lover sits behind you.

Have your partner run his hands all over your body while you read the fantasy out loud. Take your time, and be descriptive! Let your partner’s touch get you worked up while you read.

If you don’t have a favorite fantasy that you want to share this way, find a story that really gets your motor revving. It can be anything–a story from a “letters” style magazine, or something you find on an online Web site like Literotica or the Alt Sex Stories Text Repository, or other people’s fantasies from a site like Whispers.

While you read, let the feel of your partner’s hands traveling over your body get you all revved up. You can start undressed, and feel hands on your bare skin while you share your fantasy, or let your partner undress you bit by bit while you read–whatever sounds sexier to you.

By the time you’re finished, you should both be in a deliciously erotic state, ready to follow through with some sexy fun!